What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and existence, without a basic type and fixed result. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. Of course, always with regard for (shared) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage happens on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection in between massage giver and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of heart and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, ecstatic state of being. The impact is frequently a terrific physical, psychological wellness. Generally, the receiver is very relaxed, incredibly flowing and winding up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is given from the heart. Most touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact enjoy that touches. The recipient is also present, and receives active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart.
Filled with attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and presence. Both the giver and the receiver are entirely present. Do not think of the other day or tomorrow. Do not browse or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on giving or getting the massage. A really mindful touch from the heart. Receive also really knowingly, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are actually out of the concern. Whatever occurs in the minute, in full consciousness, lovingly attuned to each other and the circumstance. Dreaming away or falling asleep is also not planned (still, when that's exactly what you need, it's ok).
A tantric massage isn't really about an established result
A tantric massage will always be different. It is not the strategy or the wanted sequence of massaging that is crucial, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that exactly what is needed.
Tantric massages for that reason often take an extremely unexpected course. Everything suits a bigger whole. For instance, a tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in happiness. A "stopped working" massage can be the first step in a fantastic advancement.
Ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Constantly with respect to limits
We understood it for a long time, of course, but since the #MeToo revelations, some things have turned up worldwide of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both giver and receiver constantly need to be ensured. Loving attunement constantly comes.
Set clear boundaries in advance
Every person (other than when you are informed) has his limitations. This is human and is also essential (check out the short article on safeguarding borders. Believe in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limits are. Make certain there is a correct intake, and a decent preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits in advance: about psychological limits, and also make sure for clarity about physical boundaries. It is a misconception that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is also completely okay (though hard to deal with oil then). It is also a misconception that a tantric massage must be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have actually given/received lots of tantric massages only on the head. Likewise, in addition, really each cell is sensuous, but you will be surprised.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow easily
Activating and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. Of course, constantly with regard for (mutual) boundaries. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays an important function once again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ creation/ user-friendly energy.
Focused on the natural thrilled state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage becomes part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and awareness. In a flash you can become informed (by 1000% surrender), however generally, that is a process in time. Tantra knows different methods to use on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is among them. Tantra has no function other than self-realization: restoring the natural (ecstatic) state of being.
Normally resulting in a fantastic physical, psychological well-being
Tantra assists you to end up being more unwinded, more dynamic, more energetic, more loving and so a lot more. In fact, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Because this is exactly what takes place typically: the recipient is enjoying it! Delighting in is fully allowed! A tantra massage is usually good, sometimes scrumptious. We, for that check it out reason, invite you to completely enjoy getting ánd providing a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and reveal that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of types of massage. Of course, all massages have particular practices and methods in common. There is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (intended at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (targeted at enjoyment complete satisfaction).
* (Body) therapy (intended at healing).
Well since you are truly extremely energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however treatment is an occupation apart.
The basics of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive explanation, see the post on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand out:
Tantra massage pointers-- before you begin
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer excellent conditions (physically, however also mentally).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the whole body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every now and then ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Use your senses.
* Offer feedback (satisfaction noises?).
* Construct in integration (rest) moments.
Some masseurs are more/mainly worried with what they themselves find pleasant, fun, desirable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "requirements", remain away from your own problems and above all ... do not try to force anything. Absolutely nothing needs to be done, nothing is needed! Once again, do not aim to impose anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Maybe you are dissatisfied when someone drops off to sleep. You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No desired outcome. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it generally is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy flow.
* Respect borders, set clear limits beforehand. Our masseuses are mainly very open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, obviously. Nevertheless, know that it can turn out differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the whole body. Being excited is regular and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to renewed freezing moments. Prevent limitations from being crossed once again.
* Action by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Delighting in the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and supply combination minutes (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply do not hurry to the weather ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and unwinded (however you will not go to sleep). During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (often entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible recovery impact. Even though tantra massage is not the exact same as healing, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more caring, you discover what it resembles to enjoy yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. And that offers a splendidly liberating and deeply satisfied feeling.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and presence.
* The whole body takes part.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic form, without predefined result.
* With regard to (mutual) borders.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, ecstatic state of being of the recipient.
* Normally resulting in a fantastic physical, psychological wellness (of both).